Unfortunately you can not really speed up hair growth so your only really reliable option is hair extensions. Most magic creams etc. are really a con. I am sorry but trust me it's too good to be true. It all depends on your personal rate of hair growth.

1. I want to grow my hair long? I have some questions?

Your hair does not grow from hair products, it grows from: good genes, good hair care & all the good healthy foods you eat from Mother Nature. When you wash your hair with one of those nutrient-rich shampoos, most of the nutrients and active ingredients in the product do not actually end up in your hair, they wind up down the drain... along with all the money you spent on the shampoo. It is HOW you use to style your hair or what styling tools that damage the hair, and what chemicals you are adding to the hair, not the shampoo. Shampoo & condition the hair as usual, every 4-7 days, but continue to trim off the damaged hair, allowing new growth to take over. Use GENTLE shampoo. Applying a small drop amount of oil to wet hair can also act as a leave-in conditioner and provides excellent conditioning in preparation for the next shampooing. If you've straightened your hair in the past, it may grow slowly or none at all. Google: "Foods for Healthy Hair" - Your hair may be the fastest-growing tissue in the body but, unlike the skin, it cannot repair itself. That is why getting the right balance of vitamins and proteins is imperative. Do not expect to look like you've stepped out of a hair commercial the day after you've changed your diet. It is likely to take at least three months before you actually see tangible results. Growing healthy hair does not come from a bottle or pills and hair products do not speed hair growth. Any hair oil, is another form to keep hair moisturized, nothing more. If you are in HS, your hair & nails should be growing normally, and as healthily as possible, since you are eating healthy foods. But when hair is not growing as fast, it's because they've been tampered with: chemicals, hair straightening, etc. . . Cutting your split ends yourself, spend 5-10 mins. on a sunny day so you can easily spot them, using a 2" scissors, cut strand by strand, section by section, allowing new growth to take over. Then 2x a year, get a good hair cut. This wo not speed things up, but it will make the hair look healthier while it's growing. Even healthy hair like mine get them, due to normal brushing & styling.

2. Natural hair products for men (gel-pomade)?

Just like you like to run your fingers through our hair, we do not want to be stabbed by yours! Tried mousse? Sometimes it will give you volume w/o the stiffness. Matrix has a good line. They have a wax-type product that is great. I am sorry that I can not remember the name, but it holds short hair w/o being too sticky.

3. My hair wont grow longer than my shoulders?

That happens, and I've been preaching about that here, since 2009. I've met people whose hair stopped growing or having hair falls, I've known people in their 30's whose hair stopped growing from ironing their hair in the 70's. Most of my responses are from people wanting to know HOW to grow their hair, having hair lost or what color hair dye to color their hair, mostly from teenagers. The hair industry is a billion dollar business, they sell products that cleans & condition the hair. They also sell products that damage and causes hair loss. They also DO NOT give money back guarantee for damaged hair or hair loss due to 'abuse'. Mechanical, chemical, or thermal styling. Hair straighteners and relaxers top the hair products pose the greatest risks. Hair relaxers, related products marketed heavily to African-American women, are dangerous because they may contain powerful chemicals such as lye, a toxic substance also used in drain cleaners. If you've straightened your hair in the past, it may grow slowly or none at all. Google: "Foods for Healthy Hair" Growing healthy hair does not come from a bottle or pills and hair products do not speed hair growth. Any hair oil, is another form to keep hair moisturized, nothing more. If you are in HS, your hair & nails should be growing normally, and as healthily as possible, since you are eating healthy foods. But when hair is not growing as fast, it's because they've been tampered with: chemicals, hair straightening, etc. . . And please, if you are trying to grow your hair, do NOT use hair extensions, that will only weaken and make your hair thinner. People who are trying to spam the board and are being reported for violations are not very helpful to your crisis. Sorry, I am just being honest with you, and I will NEVER spam or be dishonest with you! Google: Jennifer Aniston Admits Extensions wreaked havoc on her hair." Google: DEATH BY HAIR EXTENSIONS, 2-2-12. A doctor later hypothesized that Graham's death could have been caused by an allergic reaction to hair extension glue or her latex hair weave. Dancing and sweating all night could have caused the glue to enter Graham's bloodstream. According to doctors and officials involved in Graham's case, death by hair extensions, or an anaphylactic reaction to hair glue, is not as uncommon as one would think. According to the pathologist overseeing Graham's case, there are 10 to 20 such deaths a year in Britain and many more in the States.